A resource person can be a valuable asset when you’re trying to wrap your head around a new language. Contrary to most people’s fears, finding one isn’t that difficult. Sure, it’s not easy, but some investment of time is bound to get you one.
You don’t need a language teacher to be the resource. In fact, you don’t even need a fluent bilingual. If they speak the target language fluently and your native tongue (which, I assume, is English) even at a slightly intermediate level, they can prove very valuable, especially when paired with a formal program, such as those you get from software-based language lessons.
How To Find One
Try to befriend people who speak the target language. Naturally, this will be easiest when you’re immersed in the country. If you’re abroad, you can try online (especially in forums) or local organizations. Be honest about what you want – tell people you meet you need someone to bounce off ideas and practice every so often. Broadcast your interest in finding a resource person.
Most of the time, someone will actually volunteer. That may shock you, but that’s how most people I know found their language resource persons.
It seems that, in every group people, there’s always bound to be one or two who are looking to be helpers. All you’re doing is broadcasting your interest so these people find you. See how that works?
No Free Lunch
One thing you have to remember is: it’s seldom free. You’re asking them to invest some time to help you learn, so they’ll likely want something in return. Some will want to learn English while you learn their native language. Others will want monetary remuneration. Whatever the case, do expect to reward their efforts in some form. It’s the right thing to do.